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英国paper代写-Strengths help, life comforts

2017-09-08 | 来源:51due教员组 | 类别:Paper代写范文

英国paper代写-Strengths help, life comforts讲了竞争,同情心,适应能力,恢复和沟通这几个有点,旨在找出我们在我的语言学习中,在大学生活中如何工作,以及适应新的环境。每个力量都有自己的特殊优势,所以能够解决问题。本篇paper代写由51due代写平台整理,供大家参考阅读。


Introduction 

 In this essay, my five top strengths will be introduced and analyzed one by one. These five strengths are competition, empathy, adaptability, restorative and communication, which aim to figure out how they work in my language learning, in my college life and in adjusting to a new environment. Each strength possesses its own special advantage, so that i am able to solve problems. 

To my language learning 

When I was in an English speech contest about resources, I felt much stressed at the beginning. I knew I am afraid of competition. Actually, I was afraid of failures. However, at the last ten minutes of the contest, the competitive atmosphere makes me calm instead. I cannot avoid competing and I am not the only one in the stage. And I believed it was an opportunity to show my strength. Thus, I performed better than I did in the usual, although I had not got the prize. The failure gives a little blow to the confidence, but I make a good progress through analyzing the reason and summarizing the experience. As for a language learner, I must establish the awareness of competition. The world is changing all the time, so does the language. The change of the language embodies in the expansion of the new words, the diverse usage of a word, etc. ; so that I have to hold the changing information, to learn it, to accumulate it preparing for possible competition. School is the best place for spreading knowledge. It is pure like the heaven. Yet, school is also the epitome of society, where there is harsh competition. Students compete for grade, for ranking, for family background, etc. However, competition is good for students. I am face with the competition bravely. Even I fail, I left no regrets. 

Empathy is an instinctive ability, which enables me to listen, to see, to sense, to understand other people’s world. With this psychological trait, I even can explore the feeling we have but never being showed through a picture, a novel, a song, a movie, etc. For example, The Bridge of Madison County is one of my favorite movies, which tells a story about a married woman’s love for a photographer. After finishing the movie, I put myself in the position of the married woman and feel tangled as for how to make choice between family and love. Finally, my strength of empathy makes me understand the woman’s choice. The woman is not a selfish person; family is her duty; she cannot leave her husband, children alone and to pursue her love, so she abandons the latter. To listen with empathy, I build up friendships. The person who is my friend has the similar interest, temper and taste with me and I am willing to spend more time with the person who agrees with me. It is because of the empathy that connects two or more people together. Listening is an important way for me to know how other people feel or what their attitude is. I always remember to be a good listener, so that i can show my empathy after listening genuinely. Listening with empathy can also be applied to cure patients who are psychological ill or emotionally agitate themselves. It means that the listener offers the individual a space to express themselves, but does not instruct how they should behave or respond (Serbin, K. M, 2013). Therefore, listening is the first step to show empathy. To see with empathy, I can discover a new emotional world. Sometimes, it is very hard for me to express the feelings or speak out the comprehension. Then when I encounter books or anything else which tells the same things, I will appreciate them a lot for helping me relieve our feelings. Probably, that is the reason I love the book, love the author, love the song, etc. 

To my college life

Undoubtedly, I will feel upset if we cannot exactly put my thoughts or perspectives into words, while if I can express our feelings correctly, I will feel good a lot. In order to avoid the former situation, I need the good communication skills and ability. It is no doubt that conflicts will occur in the dorm. Once, I argued with my roommates about how many times we should clean the floor a week. Some said four times a week, some said three times a week and I insisted once a day at least. I knew we should calm down and have a good communication, so that the conflict will be solved. Finally, I persuaded them to accept my ideas by telling them how important the cleanness to a dorm and to the health to all of us. Most of us have experienced the self-introduction in a new class or in an job interview. Some performance very good, but some are not. I still remember the first time I made a self-introduce in the class and in the dormitory. Because of my good communication strengths, I can get along well with my classmates and roommates always. People with good communication skills are able to express their ideas effectively and exactly, so that the listener can understand very well and it benefits the both sides. Especially in the beginning of my college life, good communication skills show its great strength. Therefore, it is normally that students with good communication skills will leave a deep impression on their fellow students and teachers; interviewees with good communication skills have bigger possibility to be employed. An article shows that doctors with good communication skills have a good relationship with patients. Doctors identify patients’ issues more correctly and accurately, and then patients satisfy with doctors’ care and be more willing to follow their advice (Maguire, Peter, and C. Pitceathly, 2003:697-700). From this statement, a conclusion can be drawn: the ability to communicate well benefits both my life and study, which enable me to avoid and solve many practical problems. With the popularization of higher education, the number of high school students is rising. That means the competition between college students is also rising. Thus, I admit that I am living in a world as roman arena; competition is on its way always. According to Darwin’s theory of evolution, I know that species have the trend of excessive reproduction. However, the space and resources are limited. Species have to struggle for survival, which is called the survival of the fittest (Alzohairy, Ahmed Mansour, 2009:27-46). Form this point, competition is for survival. 

To adjust to a new culture

When I was a freshman, I felt very nervous and uncomfortable when I talked to a stranger, especially the senior. However, I got helps from one of my roommates who told me that everyone is equal in America even you are the president, so you do not need to be afraid. I listened to him and understand I should adjust to the change of the environment. Adaptability is a basic strength I should have. Therefore, I look at people in an equal point no matter who they are. And I feel relaxed when I face them. The freshmen leave home, arrive at the new place, meet the strange people, which make them expected as well as feel unsafe. In light of this situation, the ability to adjust to the new environment shows its prominent function. Students who study abroad have the chance to touch all sorts of knowledge within diverse culture, but these students living in a relevant different environment from their motherland will also feel uncomfortable or unaccustomed at the very beginning of their school life. Therefore, how much the student feels uncomfortable and unaccustomed in the new environment depends on their adaptability. Students with strong adaptability enable them to integrate into the new interpersonal relationship quickly, while students with weak adaptability need a long transitional period of time. A result about the social adaptability of international students has been made, which shows that this ability and skills have a direct impact on students’ social connections. Meanwhile, students’ social adaptability is influenced by local people’s attitude towards diverse culture (Lewis, Amy, G. S. Ching, and Y. N. Su, 2013). Adaptability is not a born ability. I will cultivate it consciously, so that I can apply it to where it is needed. 

The strength of restorative also help me a lot. In the course of learning a new culture and adjusting to new environment, I have met couples of challenges and problems. A very basic question occurs at my oversea life: cultural difference between America and China. Such difference occurs in my study, in my interpersonal relationships, which makes me feel upset. Once I have lunch with one of my new classmates. I paid for him after finishing the meal in order to show my kindness and enthusiasm. However, he was not happy for that. From this story, I knew the reason why my classmate was unhappy for I paid for him. Analyzing the problem indicates that details should be paid attention and looking for the reasonable evidence. My classmate insisted we should make it Dutch, which shows his attitude to my action. Based on the former steps, I am settling the problem and bringing things back to track. Finally I respected his choice. From this story, I am aware of the cultural difference between China and America in the aspect of money. Although it is a very trivial matter, it does have an impact on my life directly. Therefore, whenever I am disturbed by conflicts or problems, I always observe the steps of settling things, which gets double effects. That is: figure out the problem, analyze the problem, and solve the problem. Figuring out the problem means to find out the root cause of things. Ask why. This step is the most important one, I believe, for if I cannot identify what is wrong, I will go in the mistaken way and even have things become worse. 

Conclusion 

In conclusion, competition is the power that drive me make progress; empathy is the embodiment of my emotional world; adaptability is the guidance to let me into new environment; restorative is to bring things back to my life; communication is the art of life. Human beings are not born with special strengths. I need to cultivate them consciously, so that to make myself become stronger.


Reference

Alzohairy, Ahmed Mansour. "Darwin's Theory Of Evolution." Darwin's Anniversary 2009:27-46.

Lewis, Amy, G. S. Ching, and Y. N. Su. "A case study on the international students’ social adaptability in Taiwan: A qualitative study."International Journal of Research Studies in Psychology 2.1(2013).

Maguire, Peter, and C. Pitceathly. "Key communication skills and how to acquire them." Bmj Chinese Edition 325.7366(2003):697-700.

Serbin, K. M. "The power of empathy:, listening, processing, and staying out of the way. " Professional Case Management 18.1(2013).


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